But I have this complaint against you. You don’t love me or each other as you did at first Rev2:4. If you don’t work on a relationship, eventually you will lose your first love, you will grow cold and drift away. You need to stir yourself up. You need to read daily and worship God and spend time with Him. As you do you will draw closer to God and you will sense His presence come around your life. As you pray in the Holy Spirit the power of God will return to your prayer life. Also love each other, do the things that you first did when you were in love. Others will respond to your actions and words. As you change they will change too. As you open your heart, let your love see beyond the niggly little things that try steal our heart. Ask God to pour His oil of joy back into those relationships. Worship and love God today. If you’ve drifted away,ask Him to forgive you and draw near to Him,He loves you so much.