Avoiding a fight is wisdom
Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor; only fools insist on quarreling. Proverbs 20:3. Arguments rarely achieve the desired outcome. Nothing much is accomplished by arguing over "he said" or "she said" other than more hurt and pain. Arguing often inflames a situation that should be avoided. It's better to step back rather than allowing your emotions to engage a situation until reasoned discussions are possible. You should be wary of argumentative people who often have underlying issues they're struggling with that causes them to argue over everything. You should be prayerful about every situation and God will give you the wisdom you need. We should deal with people in love and respect, even through difficult situations that will leave God room to move and change hearts. Praise God today that He'll give us the wisdom we need in difficult situations as we look to Him for His wisdom and guidance.